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New Jersey Native Whitney Houston Remembered Across the State

Singer praised for her soaring voice and her role as a model for black women, despite her later problems with drug abuse.

 
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Flowers were left in the railing at New Hope Baptist Church in Newark in memory of the church's most famous parishioner, singer Whitney Houston, who died yesterday at age 48.
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East Orange teacher and singer Sharonda Allen, who sang in a Whitney Houston music video, remembers the singer.

Singing superstar Whitney Houston—a New Jersey native born in Newark, educated in Caldwell, and a one-time resident of East Orange and Mendham Township—was mourned Sunday across the state in ceremonies both large and small.

At the New Hope Baptist Church in Newark, where Houston began her public singing career at age 11 as a member of the junior gospel choir, a medley of Houston's hit songs played over the public address system as the congregation arrived for a 6:30 a.m. service dedicated to the singer.

Several in the crowd said they were also there to pay their respects to Houston's mother, gospel singer Cissy, a long-time active member of the church.

Far to the west of Newark in Mendham Township, mourners placed flowers outside the entrance to Houston's home, where she lived for two decades with members of her family.

Many local residents remembered casual encounters with the music superstar.

Shopping at a Whole Foods store in West Orange, East Orange resident Sharonda Allen talked of the time her choir sang for the video of Houston's song, "All the Man That I Need."

“I felt as if a relative had passed,” Allen said, about her reaction to Houston's death. “Her music has been so much of the soundtrack of my life... She was my role model, my idol, my hero.”

She called Houston “the real American Idol,” particularly for the influence she had on young black girls of her generation. “We looked at ourselves in the mirror and we saw that we were beautiful.”

In Mendham, members of the local police department recalled her wedding to fellow singer Bobby Brown.

"We lit up the end of her drive way for guests being dropped off and picked up by limo," Bruce Schmeal said in a comment on Patch. "I remember (actor and comedian) Kenan Ivory Wayans was really cool, he took pictures with us and was just real nice."

Melissa Phelan said in a comment that her father had been a member of the township committee that had issued permits for the extravagant wedding. "Whitney and Bobby were very kind to include them on their guest list," she said. "My parents went to the wedding along with other members of the BFD and Police Department... It truly is such a sad day! Another pop icon of my time is gone, RIP Whitney!"

Some members of New Hope Baptist Church had a more personal connection with the singer.

"I heard her sing in this church, many times. It was awesome," said longtime parishioner Karen Winfield of West Orange, who referred to the singer's "impetuous smile."

Parishioner Daneen Grayson said Houston's battle against drug abuse "were her struggles, that was between her and God," a sentiment heard often this morning by worshipers filing past a gaggle of reporters into the church.

"We ask for everyone to continue to lift up the Houston family with your prayers," Pastor Joseph Carter told reporters outside the church Sunday morning. "The family shared Whitney with the world but Whitney was a mother, daughter, sister, and that is the focus we want to maintain."

Carter also said he had "no word" on funeral arrangements.

Mourners left flowers in the metal railing of the fence outside the chrurch. A large crowd of reporters and TV crews were kept at a distance from the entrance. Reporters were not allowed inside for the service.

Houston was born in Newark, the third and youngest child of Army serviceman and entertainment industry executive John Russell Houston Jr. and gospel singer Cissy Houston.

She was exposed to some of the top soul and rhythm and blues singers from an early age—her cousins were Dionne and Dee Dee Warwick, and Aretha Franklin was her godmother.  

Her family moved to East Orange after the Newark riots in 1967, and she attended Mount Saint Dominic Academy in Caldwell for high school.

Houston later bought a home in Mendham Township, and during that period the pop icon spent her down time like many residents would. She shopped in nearby Chester and had local doctors help her through her pregnancy.

Melinda Bass worked at the Dairy Queen in Chester after classes let out at Mendham High School and during summer break when she was home from Ithaca College. While not much of that time by the soft serve may be memorable, working  on a cake for Whitney Houston and her family was something few would forget.

“She used to come in all the time,” Bass said. “Usually when I wasn’t there. I met her daughter and decorated a cake for Bobby Brown’s father.”

Her co-workers at the ice cream shop all regarded Houston well. “Everyone agreed she was so nice and so humble,” Bass said. “This is so sad.”

Livingston native Martha Ackermann saw Houston through a different lens, the one of expectant mother. “When I was pregnant with my daughter Jill my doctor was her back up doctor at St. Barnabas,” Ackermann said. “Everyone said she was so nice and she was just like any other mother.”

Houston put her Mendham residence up for sale in 2009, according to NJ.com. She later lived in Atlanta with husband Bobby Brown, and most recently had a home in Los Angeles.

This story was reported by local editors Paul Milo in Newark, Russ Crespolini in Mendham and Teresa Akersten in Caldwell, and written by Senior Regional Editor Steve Johnson.

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Grant Summers

10:50 pm on Saturday, February 11, 2012

Bobby Brown I hope u can live with yourself for getting her started on drugs she was a beautiful person before you

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Ricky

4:08 am on Monday, February 13, 2012

Most people have no idea how addiction takes hold and it's not just illegal drugs. It's also Rx's which also disrupt the brain and body chemistry in an attempt to treat a specific physical or mental issue. That disruption is why there is a ton of side effects listed for every pill you take. So if you want to point the finger at Bobby Brown, make sure you also point the finger at the FDA and giant pharmaceutical companies who are allowed to push their products on the doctors within the medical community who in turn freely distribute drugs while not giving enough thought to addiction potential and how difficult that is to break away from. So it makes no difference whether legal or illegal, drugs disrupt the body chemistry. She wasn't the first well know personality to have this happen and she won't be the last. Of course we don't have the media to tell us all about the thousands of everyday residents who have faced this as well.

Abraham

2:52 am on Sunday, February 12, 2012

I think your breaking news headline was insensitive and rude. Grant Summer please don't do that at the end of the day we all have choices. Although I understand ,but this is not the time kids are involved,he is their father and may God watch over them and Mrs Cissy Houston. Newark and New hope Bapist Church will miss Whitney deeply.

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Sandy Cash

7:35 am on Sunday, February 12, 2012

Whitney did not have the mind of Christ. Her thinking was twisted. She did not understand the gospel truth which is, Jesus gave His life for us to give His life through us, to live HIS life through us. Christ made her one of the best singers in the world! We must make a choice to marry the Living God who comes into our life to do great and mighty things. If we don't marry Him, we die!......gaining nothing!......leaving a legacy of what Whitney has left for her family and children to hear for the rest of their lives on earth. What a tragedy! Where did she go wrong? She started believing a lie. Where did it come from? The Kingdom of Darkness that rules here on earth. Satan is the prince of the power of the air. He is a Liar! A Thief! He comes to kill, steal, and destroy! He speaks lies. We have to choose to believe the truth over his lies. Jesus is the Truth! Thy Kingdom come on earth as it is in heaven. Folks, it starts in the mind. Jesus died to save our soul. Saving our body is simply a byproduct! In a heavenly place in my mind, Jesus Christ reigns, He is my Lord, my Savior, and as long as I give Him reign over my life, I will be saved, sanctified, redeemed by the blood of the Lamb, and leave a legacy of transformation by renewing my mind with the Word of the Living God. Christ in me is the hope of glory!

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JF

9:10 am on Monday, February 13, 2012

Pehaps in her final moments she truly surrendered and understood her stance before Christ. Remember even the thief on the cross in his final moments yielded and was saved. Our thoughts and prayers need to be with the family!

E.D.

9:43 am on Sunday, February 12, 2012

Really! This is Caldwell breaking news? Whats next? She made her choices and she paid the consequences. Don't glorify this behavior to our children. Truth be told, she was a drug addict with a beautiful voice. What a waste. Sorry for her mother and daughter.

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Mary Mann

11:03 am on Sunday, February 12, 2012

E.D.,, One of the top-selling musical artists of all times and the most awarded female singer in history — who spent four years going to high school in Caldwell — has died suddenly. I think this warrants some breaking news in the Caldwells.

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Ricky

4:10 am on Monday, February 13, 2012

I'll just paste in the same.....
Most people have no idea how addiction takes hold and it's not just illegal drugs. It's also Rx's which also disrupt the brain and body chemistry in an attempt to treat a specific physical or mental issue. That disruption is why there is a ton of side effects listed for every pill you take. So if you want to point the finger at Bobby Brown, make sure you also point the finger at the FDA and giant pharmaceutical companies who are allowed to push their products on the doctors within the medical community who in turn freely distribute drugs while not giving enough thought to addiction potential and how difficult that is to break away from. So it makes no difference whether legal or illegal, drugs disrupt the body chemistry. She wasn't the first well know personality to have this happen and she won't be the last. Of course we don't have the media to tell us all about the thousands of everyday residents who have faced this as well.

M.Tannerson

3:55 pm on Sunday, February 12, 2012

Celebrities today face harsh and demeaning criticism from the media. Fans simply know too much about the ins & outs of their favorite entertainers. There is no doubt in my mind that these talented people feel the pressure. We all have choices and sometimes the choices we make aren't always the best. We're only human. Celebrities are no different. Whitney was talented as she was beautiful. She was an entertainer to us, but a daughter, mother, sister, and so much more to others. An iconic legend with an amazing voice. This is how I will remember her. Everything else is irrelevant!

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John Q.

11:08 am on Tuesday, February 14, 2012

You go girl. She made just a couple of bads choices in her life. Not really her fault. You know, the media thing and the Paparazzi.

Lucille Bridges

4:30 pm on Sunday, February 12, 2012

I really enjoyed Whitney Houston singing so much, I often prayed for her. My pray is that she submited her life to Jesus Christ. When she sang I could listen all day what a beautiful voice she posses. I pray for her family in their loss, look to Jesus He will see you through and comfort you as only He can.

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Bruce Knuckle

9:31 pm on Sunday, February 12, 2012

I wonder why she just didnt stay in Newark?

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MillerTime

10:54 pm on Sunday, February 12, 2012

My guess is that another doctor will be on trail for doling out prescription drugs to a celebrity with a longstanding problem.
Such a great voice and talent.

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david cook

11:07 pm on Sunday, February 12, 2012

DAVID IN SPOTSWOOD

TO THE WHITNEY FAMILY.
MY PRAYERS GO OUT TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY, YOU WERE SUCH A WONDERFUL WOMAN. I LOVE YOU AND YOUR WONDERFUL MUSIC THAT YOU HAVE SHARED AND INSPIRED WITH SO SO MANY PEOPLE. R. I. P WHITNEY

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Carol

5:20 am on Monday, February 13, 2012

RIP Whitney Houston still shocked she is gone. hope her daughter is able to find strength. also hope people let her RIP and stop bashing people in her life. i hope there will soon be a law to make doctors not prescribe pills so fast to people and prescribing too many.

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Arlene M. Baladi

8:35 am on Monday, February 13, 2012

RIP Whitney...you brought joy to this world and left it much too soon!

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Deborah Hulbert

10:09 am on Monday, February 13, 2012

Amen! Rest in Peace, Whitney. Please, people, can we not bash this poor woman who's gone and cannot defend herself? Let's be more charitable in spirit.

Robin Keyes

8:48 am on Monday, February 13, 2012

R.I.P. Whitney...only God can judge.

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cv

9:18 am on Monday, February 13, 2012

I would like to know where her entourage went? I guess she had no real friends there because I never would have left my friend in that condition. And before everyone has a nasty comment for me I have alot of addict experience. We sometimes can't be saved from ourselves.

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Ricky

1:28 pm on Monday, February 13, 2012

There's no mystery whatsoever about her passing if you've had experience with addiction yourself or treat others who battle it. When you depress the central nervous system with chemicals, your body grows tolerant of the previous dosage which then requires higher dosages to get the same effect as you begin to suffer the withdrawals. If you then take more of it and combine it with alcohol which is also a CNS depressant, you become sedated to a dangerous point.

Geoff Gove

10:59 am on Monday, February 13, 2012

"I wonder why she just didn't stay in Newark?" Lots of families born in Newark aspire to move out. The East Orange neighborhood thew wound up in was a definite improvement -- and only a block from Bloomfield. http://bloomfieldgreenways.blogspot.com/2012/02/whitney-houstons-bloomfield-connection.html

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FanwoodMom

11:20 am on Monday, February 13, 2012

@ Geoff and Bruce - I read that her family moved from Newark after the riots - I think she also attended Mt. St. Dominick Academy in Caldwell? Probably why this was local news in Caldwell. Born in Newark and raised in Essex County myself, I always admired the fact that Whitny Houston was proud of her roots and remained active for many years in the church and community of her youth.

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Tammy

1:07 pm on Monday, February 13, 2012

Really tired of people blaming Whitney's drug use on Bobby Brown. Not saying he is a saint and not saying he didn't contribute but I am friends with somebody that grew up in the same neighborhood with Whitney and Miss Houston was "street" and known for her enjoyment of weed as a teen. Her "wholesome" image was invented by those handling her first album. That being said, she was an amazing talent and the entertainment will never see the likes of her again.

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Sonya Buckman

1:21 pm on Monday, February 13, 2012

In rehab they tell you that you have to remove yourself from people and circumstances that would hinder your recovery. She didn't have a chance to do this as she had many "friends" I am sure that made too much money from her over the years and didn't want their gravy train to stop. She just wasn't strong enough to lead the way for herself.

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AStar Gazer

4:01 pm on Monday, February 13, 2012

As has been reported, the real tragedy in all this is the life that her daughter will be caught up in, if it has not already damaged her beyond repair. Strange, but it was reported that Bobbie Brown, her daughter had to be 'fished' out by hotel employees from the same bath tub that Whitney died in the following day. Pray that there will be people who will take Bobbie out of the 'Whitney Life'.

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Carol

4:11 pm on Monday, February 13, 2012

Its crazy people blame Bobby Brown. They aren't married anymore and just 'cause he also had a drug problem doesn't mean he is the reason for her death! Whitney Houston is her own person and she chose to take the pills. I think people need to stop doing the blame game and let her RIP and remember she has a daughter who is having a very hard time and her family is hurting.

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Ricky

1:05 pm on Tuesday, February 14, 2012

To not use this opportunity to question the FDA allowing giant pharmaceutical companies to produce dangerous addicting drugs who then send their sales reps into the medical community who then freely prescribe them too often, if you don't use this as a lesson then when will we?

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Monk

1:36 pm on Tuesday, February 14, 2012

You can't blame the FDA or the pharmaceutical companies or the sales reps if the doctors or patients disregard the label warnings.

tina

1:32 pm on Tuesday, February 14, 2012

the drugs are only dangerous in the wrong hands

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Ricky

1:45 pm on Tuesday, February 14, 2012

The big pharmaceutical companies could care less what happens to patients like Whitney Houston who get hooked on prescription meds since in the end, it's good for business. Do you really think that tobacco companies care about those who get addicted to smoking? The same is true for the pharmaceutical industry.

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Monk

4:25 pm on Tuesday, February 14, 2012

Ricky, how is the death of Whitney Houston (or any patient) good for big pharmaceutical companies' business?

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Journey

4:36 pm on Tuesday, February 14, 2012

It depends on how long it takes someone to die vs. how many years they feed the addition. And many addicted people don't die. A very ugly percentage game.

The tobacco industry has been killing a percentage of their customers since forever.

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Monk

5:09 pm on Tuesday, February 14, 2012

Journey, I don't believe tobacco companies ever pretended their product was intended to cure or mitigate an illness or injury. On the other hand, pharmaceutical drug labels list every known adverse effect. The comparison doesn't hold water.

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Ricky

2:29 am on Wednesday, February 15, 2012

Tom, no not the passing of Whitney, it is 'addiction' that is good for business since sales remain high due to the extreme OVERUSE of their products that were never meant to be taken long term. The medical community freely prescribes drugs that in the end, leave their patients in a place that is much much worse than the place they were in when they first started taking these Rx's.

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Monk

7:29 am on Wednesday, February 15, 2012

Why indict the whole pharmaceutical industry and medical profession when it's just a relatively few malpractitioners who are to blame? Anyway, drug overuse seems to be most prevalent among celebrities and athletes who have the means and influence to get the drugs. The media and witless fans certainly don't help when talented people are first made out to be larger than life and then viciously torn apart when the pressure leads them to drug abuse. You really can't blame the pharmaceutical industry and medical profession in all honesty.

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Ricky

2:24 pm on Wednesday, February 15, 2012

"""Why indict the whole pharmaceutical industry and medical profession when it's just a relatively few malpractitioners who are to blame?""....just a few? You haven't been out there lately. It also holds true for anti-depressants not just the benzo class of drugs. The FDA needs to do its job and that involves phasing out the use of benzodiazpines because these drugs are being abused all the way down the chain, from the big pharm companies that crave the profits they generate to the doctors who feel guilty if they don't prescribe them, down to the patients who are not made aware that the use of these drugs puts you in a place that is far far worse than the place you were in when you first began using them.

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Monk

5:20 pm on Wednesday, February 15, 2012

If benzodiazpines are safe and effective in the short term, and are indicated and prescribed for use in that way, then you have to let the pharmaceutical companies and good practitioners off the hook. There's no question drugs can be harmful if misused, and it's hard to believe anyone is not aware of this with all of the information provided with pharmaceutical products.

If you have issues with capitalism, I respect that as a completely separate matter. But the pharmaceutical industry and medical profession cannot be blamed for malpractitioners and reckless or ignorant users - when the pharmaceutical industry and medical profession have provided all of the approved usages and warnings..

airman1968

7:32 am on Wednesday, February 15, 2012

I understand Gov. Christie wants to lower flags to half mast for Whitney. Yes she was a great singer and very talented, but come on Mr. Govenor, flag lowering? This is a tribute to Police, Fireman, War Dead, notable Politicians and the like, not a singer who though talented caused her own death.

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Al Scala

7:52 am on Wednesday, February 15, 2012

We had a young man from Bergen County killed this week in Afghanistan. Did our Governor mention anything about that? As far as I'm concerned, that is a far greater reason to lower the flags.

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FourScore

7:58 am on Wednesday, February 15, 2012

This is a stupid decision on Christie's part! Do you know how many famous entertainers were originally from NJ? Are we going to now have to lowe the flag every time one of them passes now that this precedent is set?

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deedee

6:08 am on Thursday, February 16, 2012

why in the world would any doctor prescribe 3 benzos to an addict. And all the news and speculation out there but not one report I heard mentioned the possibility of suicide.

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cv

8:16 am on Thursday, February 16, 2012

@deedee these addicts are crafty they know how to go to different doctors and pharmacies to hook themselves up.

judi

7:35 am on Thursday, February 16, 2012

Outraged at Christies decision about flying the flags at half mast on saturday!!! If thats the case - We need to and should lower the flag for EVERY Man and Woman who loses their life in proctecting US and OUR country....What is he thinking!!!!!!!!

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Frank Drebin

8:18 am on Thursday, February 16, 2012

What a crock of #$@! !.
Praise the drug addicted. Great role model for the younger generation.

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frank lasaracina

9:17 am on Thursday, February 16, 2012

The sad truth is that this is where we are as a society. Human beings are basically good, but weak. What will we do to make it better?

Rock

9:21 am on Thursday, February 16, 2012

I don't recall this outrage when flags were ordered lowered for Clarence Clemmons.

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FourScore

10:04 am on Thursday, February 16, 2012

That’s a good point, I honestly wasn’t aware that flags were lowered for Clarence. I disagree with both cases since entertainers who were originally from NJ do not actually contribute anything to the state… other than allowing people to say; “hey, he/she was from NJ”!

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Gary Englert

10:50 am on Thursday, February 16, 2012

In fairness to Governor Christie, he has ordered flags to half-staff for all military with New Jersey connections, police and firemen who have been killed in the line of duty.

He has also, on a few occassions, issued the order to honor people who can rightfully lay claim to the title off "statesmen" and for a long-time high school basketball coach (as such a government employee, who I believe compiled the most victories in state history).

Prior to Ms. Houston, he issued the order for Clemmons and for both, the honor was totally inapprorpiate.

While neither was a resident of the state at the time of their death, Ms. Houston was at least born here and lived here for a considerable time, neither of which can be said for Mr. Clemmons, who was born in Virginia and resided in Florida at the time of his death.

The flag issue came up when Clemmons passed but, his not being a star of Houston's magnitude, neither received anywhere the same level of attention.

http://www.nbcnewyork.com/video/#!/on-air/as-seen-on/Controversy-Over-Lowering-NJ-Flags-for-Whitney/139399933

Frank Drebin

10:33 am on Thursday, February 16, 2012

Who has the authority to lower the American Flag? I thought it was Congress or the President.

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Gary Englert

10:44 am on Thursday, February 16, 2012

Title 10 of the US Code (a/k/a The US Flag Code) governs the use and protocols concerning the flag and conveys the following authority to the Governor of a State, territory or possession of the United States:

"In the event of the death of a present or former official of the government of any State, territory, or possession of the United States, the Governor of that State, territory, or possession may proclaim that the National flag shall be flown at half-staff."

Whitney Houston does not qualify and Governor Christie violated the US Code with his Executive Order, as he did with Clarence Clemmons.

Rock

10:51 am on Thursday, February 16, 2012

Yes, and flags went to half-staff in Pa for Joe Paterno. That was also wrong. But again, no outrage.

What a fickle populace we are.

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Gary Englert

11:04 am on Thursday, February 16, 2012

@ Rock: While Pennsylvania isn't germane to a discussion about an action being taken in New Jersey byt it's Governor, the PA Governor actually had the authority to lower flags for Paterno. Penn State is a State university and, by extension, Paterno was a government employee/official. It could more that reasonably be argued that Mr. Paterno lived a life in service to the State and its university.

Can New Jersey say such a thing about either Whitney Houston or Clarence Clemmons?

No, not by a long shot.

Ricky

1:33 pm on Thursday, February 16, 2012

The unfortunate part of this whole story is that everytime we lose a well known public figure from the overuse of alcohol and/or prescription drugs, (and yes at the time I post this, there's been no official cause given) it gets temporary attention but then fades into the night only to be brought back when we lose another one. Heath Ledger, Anna Nicole Smith, and on and on and now Whitney. Meantime there are many ordinary citizens who we never read about who suffer the same fate. These benzo drugs were never meant to be used for more than a day or two but they're being used for lengthy periods which then means the patient must take more and more of it to get the same results. Then if you want to withdrawal from its use, it is even more difficult to wean than illegal street drugs. It appears the FDA, pharmaceutical companies and the medical community just don't get it.

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Monk

2:26 pm on Thursday, February 16, 2012

Per Wikipedia: "Benzodiazepines are commonly misused and taken in combination with other drugs of abuse." But, Ricky, it's not the FDA, pharmaceutical companies and the medical community that abuse the drug. Do you want the drug to be administered only at hospitals or clinics? Do you want the drug to be banned? Why infringe on the liberties of responsible doctors and patients when a few malpractitioners and drug abusers are to blame?

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Ricky

1:32 pm on Tuesday, February 21, 2012

Yo Tom, we still keep it going lol. It's not just the benzo types of drugs that are being used, it's pain killers / opiates but since the topic is Whitney Houston, let's stick to benzos and alcohol for now. The FDA looks the other way so as to not disrupt the big machine wheel of the pharmaceutical industry. The pharm industry says don't blame us, we just make them (along with huge profits) but then they send their sales reps in full force going doctor office to doctor office with 'free samples' hoping for future wide-spread use of their products. Then the medical community with many now practicing on 'automatic pilot' have made a habit of just whipping out their Rx pads. It's so easy to just send patients off with that then to sit down and tell them to avoid these drugs at all costs since you will most likely end up in much worse shape than where you are right now before you begin using these drugs. Especially since alcohol which any adult can buy and not realize the dangers of taking them together ending in a dangerous point that could induce coma. Oh I've heard this argument before that nobody if forcing anyone to take them but people instinctively believe it only happens to someone else, not me, and so now you have a dangerous assumption.
Perhaps Whitney originally started with illegal drugs but then the doctor who did the blood tests and saw those results may have prescribed benzos as a way to wean her off of the illegals.

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Monk

5:28 pm on Tuesday, February 21, 2012

Hey, Ricky! It just sounds too conspiratorial to me. So, what do you propose as a solution? Bans? Regulations? Homeopathic remedies?

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Ricky

4:01 am on Wednesday, February 22, 2012

Tom, for me it sounds to be 'money' motivated. There has to be an on-going educational effort by public and private organizations (just like there's been with the anti-smoking campaign that's put a much needed stigma on smoking that has resulted in less smoking than in previous decades plus banning it in restaurants, etc). We need the same kind of educational effort to make the point that using Rx's will put you in a much worse place than where you were when you took these drugs for the very first time. And that using Rx's to solve your personal problems or to make tolerating a bad relationship, these are the wrong reasons to use Rx's. One of the most legal abused drugs today is ambien, a sleeping medication. It also disrupts your brain and body chemistry. Your own brain stops producing its own natural chemicals that control the sleep/wake cycle when you ingest ambien on a regular basis.. Our own body produces the right chemicals but FDA is allowing drugs to be marketed that over-ride and disrupt our body chemistry. The medical community knows this. If they don't then they should go back for some refresher courses. They also know the dangers of alcohol along with benzos but still just 'assume' patients will abide by the rules. Whitney did not.

MaroonMom

10:04 am on Tuesday, February 21, 2012

This is just such a sad story. Whitney clearly lived a tortured life some of which was her own doing. She had such amazing gifts it's a waste to have them go away so soon.

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Joe videodummy

7:49 am on Wednesday, February 22, 2012

In Wayne Township we did not honor Whitney Houston. Our PBA President Scott Rappaport told our Mayor Not to lower the flag to half staff. He said it would disrespect others that were more important. So our flag at town hall remained at full staff, and it was business as usual.

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Justice

8:01 am on Wednesday, February 22, 2012

Adding insult to injury, the article referring to this and responded to by squeekyfoot was removed without explanation. Is this freedom of the press or censorship?

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Frank Drebin

8:11 am on Wednesday, February 22, 2012

Hi Joe videodummy.
Thanks for the information. Its about time that people have the smarts to realize the deserving people get respect and not the "entitled rich drug addicts".
Wasn't Whitney a neighbor of Christie?

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Joe videodummy

10:53 pm on Wednesday, February 22, 2012

No problem Frank- I mean the hell with the Law and the fact that the flag code does not exclude flying the flag at half staff for any citizen, whether they were in the military or not. We'll let our PBA decide who gets the respect and who doesn't. This way we can ignore the fact that we don't need authorization from the government to use the flag to honor any citizen. We'll show them ...right Frank !

Joe B.

10:47 am on Wednesday, February 22, 2012

Mother Theresa once said, "When we judge people we have no time to love them." We are all human beings and therefore imperfect by definition. Those imperfections manifest themselves differently in each of us. It's sad that the hatred articulated in these boards is so freely shared yet love and acceptance of our fellow human beings remains a rare commodity indeed.

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Justice

5:04 am on Thursday, February 23, 2012

@WayneinWayne, who do you agree with?
@JoeB and Al, I agree with both of you.

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Justice

5:07 am on Thursday, February 23, 2012

@Frank and Joe Videodummy, would you express the same venom if Ms. Houston was white, or better yet, a WASP?

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